Why Not Make Today a Day to Make Someone Else Happy

​When you see a friend, tell them how great they look and ask how have they been. If they dissagree with your kind words and don’t believe then it might be either time for the psychological hat or change of subject.

People might look at themselves and think they are not so good, but if you can convince them, then they would have a better day due to your influence. They will then appreciate being with you more and want to spend even more time with you.

A good way is to lead by example and if your friend or coleague looks at you and sees you looking to be in a right place then they will then believe you to be a great role model.

In Summary

Try putting it into into practice where you are able to help others to look good also. People need to feel good and you are now an area where you can help them. 

photo credit: Happiness is always a choice. You can’t wait for circumstances to get better. You have to create your own good fortune. So look for ways to be happy every day via photopin (license)

Let Everybody Know That You Are Here, Complete with New Goals and Fresh Outlook on Life.

standtallKeep Your Head Up and STAND TALL!

I am very excited to let you all know that my first book is now available. Its taken eons to get this far. The proofing and structure had not been a walk in the park by any means.

So what can you find? Well this is a collection of over 200 quotes with many examples that I have collected over the years. The content comes from many experiences during traveling and working as a teacher in various places.

Preview first on Amazon.com

There are so much more inspirational bits than on this site. You can find:


Part 1 – Motivation and Happiness

The first five chapters are in quick fire succession with many small points to help with in your life that can be addressed quickly. They help raise questions in you about what and where you would like improvements.
1. Lifestyle and Character
2. Motivation and Passion
3. Priority and Direction
4. Decisions and Choices
5. Simplicity and Creativity

Part 2 – Lifestyle and Organizing

The second set of five chapters is more in depth. They cover deeper aspects in your life that need more focus. They come with more details, explanations and examples.
1. Success and Dreams
2. Life and Organizing
3. Choices and Opinions
4. Anger and Emotions
5. Earnings and Rewards


If you like what you see on my blog then you will like my book.

You can read a preview on Amazon now at Amazon.com

Top Five Tips to be Inspired and take on New Challenges

Its time to get some new inspiration!

Over the past 5 months, I have blogged about numerous topics in helping people but now I feel it needs a new angle. It is easy to make the same old styled top 10 tops etc.

I need to give my readers a newer and better challenge. As to what that is, depends on where to introduce new topics or not. The idea of inspiration is to have a new outlook and introduce new methods. Therefore, those ideas need a new source.

In addition, that leads to today’s dilemma, where can we find some. Here are some ideas:


1. Travel and see Places

See new cultures and iconic places. Go on vacation where the place has some history. Ignore going on a party or package holiday and live in another country.


2. Include your Friends

Talk to new and exciting people. Meeting people can help with some surprises in their experiences.


3. Pick up some new Hobbies

Take up new and fun activities. If you ever put off doing something fun as work was the priority, well this is the time to change that. Also ask friends what they do and you can do it together.


4. Go for a Walk

Simply take a walk and clear your head. This is so easy to do that there is no excuse to not do this anyway.


5. Get Organized

This may be hard work but clean out and refresh your workspace and home. Refreshing your home to be more productive can help your health and motivation so much better.


For myself I work from home so I love to get out and clear my head as I take a walk along the river. If I could do more often, then i would love to travel to new places.

I hope you can take some ideas in building inspiration from here, go on, and become inspired. Let me know how it goes.



photo credit: Natalie Goldberg This is your life. You are responsible for it. You will not live forever. Don’t wait via photopin (license)

A Little Known Way to be More Positive

How we deal with the positivity and negativity is what makes us.

Your decisions are always going to be touched by your emotions and that is natural. It happens to all of us. We cannot fully control emotions otherwise we would be classed as being robots. If we could lose emotions then where would be the greatness in our lives?

An example we all face

When you get up in the morning and you look out of the window and see sunshine. How do you feel? Most would feel good and want to see the world. What about if you get up in the morning and it’s cold, windy and raining? Would you want to go out and go to work or school?

Most often enough the environment changes our moods. For myself when I look out of the window in the morning and I either see rain, cloud, fog or it’s very windy and cold, then doesn’t affect how my day will be. To some this may seem strange but the environment is a natural occurrence.

To appreciate the environment as is I find this is a special thing. I’m shocked at people’s reaction sometimes when they say it’s a rainy day in their day is over. Some people cannot deal with bad weather. I would see the rain as a beautiful thing. Think of the positives in it and an example would be plants would then grow and the roads would become cleaner.

In that example the weather is something that happens and it is something that is uncontrollable but we seem to believe that it should be. Our lives go on with or without the weather, naturally, as it’s just an inconvenience. If it rains too much one day, then that should not affect your judgment and should not affect your emotions to the point of being almost depressed. Your emotions are there and you should be grateful that they are. But the problem is the level of emotion could become too negative in whatever situation.

So how do we stop being so negative in the face of a harder situation? Well we need to keep on attaching positive elements to the states that are in front of us. If you look at something in front of you that has chance of being negative, but you look for the positives in there, then the situation becomes nicer. Isn’t that a better a picture to have?

Let’s wrap up!

Things exist in our worlds that can be changed to a more positive outlook. I’m making positive changes too. I for one want to create positive and a clear environment and I think clarity is actually quite important part in this. If whatever you do hasn’t got clarity then how can the judgment be chosen correctly?

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If you want to read more from my blog, why not pick up my latest book covering many many more tips Motivation and Happiness